Personal finance for people who want to be great with money — written by the friend who already is.
Travel, major purchases, practical luxury — the spending decisions where the honest question isn't 'can I afford it,' but 'is it worth it.'
The framework
The point of money is the life it buys you, not the balance it prints. Spending well is a skill. Four questions get most people to the honest answer.
How many times will you actually use this in the next year?
Divide the price by the number. That's the real cost per use. Now decide.
In every category, the curve flattens somewhere.
The tenth percentile to the fiftieth is huge. The fiftieth to the ninetieth is small. The ninetieth to the ninety-ninth is a rounding error you'll feel forever.
What else would this money buy you, in a form you'd notice?
Not 'invest it and retire six days earlier.' Something real: a trip, a class, a year of something.
In five years, will you regret buying it — or not buying it?
Most 'splurges' fail this test in one direction. The good ones fail it in the other.
On this desk
Jul 4
Issue #18
Not a budget. Not an app. Just one honest hour with last year's statements and a highlighter.
1 min read
Evergreen
Jun 16
Issue #19
The frame that separates the purchase you'll still be glad about in three years from the one you'll quietly resent by fall.
1 min read
Evergreen
Jun 3
Issue #29
The lounge benefit that comes with most premium travel cards. Where it shines, where it disappoints, and whether the annual fee it justifies is real.
1 min read
Evergreen
The Desk Reads
Sources we track — not endorsements. The Smart Money reads widely and writes its own take. When a dispatch draws on one specifically, it's cited at the bottom.
Established sources
The house style, if The Smart Money has one.
Money dials and guilt-free spending.
Product-testing rigor.
Reviews with editorial standards.
Lifestyle-spending culture.
The original Teardown methodology.
Consumer-advocate voice; fees and fine print.
Rising voices
Katie Gatti Tassin — rich-life-with-receipts tone.
Nick Maggiulli — data-driven 'is it worth it' answers.
The economy-vibes translator for younger readers.
Primary & data sources
BLS Consumer Expenditure Survey
What households actually spend by category.
Price-change data for the Friday Brief.
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